Do you ever wonder:

“How am I still struggling in dating after all the growth I’ve done?”

I used to wonder the same thing.

If you’re here, let me guess…

• You’re successful — yet dating makes you anxious.

• You look confident — but inside, you feel insecure with the men who actually matter.

• You get attention — but not from the kind of man you want.

• Emotionally unavailable partners seem to find their way to you, no matter how much you’ve grown.

• The fear of “making the same mistake again” lingers in the background.

• Intuition feels unreliable — some days you trust it, other days you don’t even know if you have it.

• You secretly believe magnetism is something other women have — not you.

• You’re always “figuring it out,” and it’s exhausting.

• And deep down, you feel like after all these years of working on yourself…you shouldn’t still be struggling with this.

But you are — and the self-blame is heavy. 

If this feels painfully true, there’s a reason — and it’s not what you think.

The real reason is this:

You’ve been trying to solve a somatic pattern with a cognitive toolkit.

You can analyze your attachment style, understand your wounds, decode your childhood, and have brilliant breakthroughs…
but those breakthroughs only land in the 10% of you — your mind.

Real transformation — the kind that rewires your patterns, your confidence, your attraction, your boundaries, your magnetism — only happens when 100% of you is involved.

Meaning your nervous system and your entire body must integrate and embody the shift.

Because:

Your patterns in love aren’t mental — they’re somatic.

Your magnetism isn’t aesthetic — it’s neurobiological.

Your confidence isn’t a mindset — it’s a body state.

Mindset work helps. But without the body, there will always be a stubborn limit you can’t break, a pattern you can’t shake, a glass ceiling you keep bumping into while wondering... why?

 Here's what I know to be true:

within you, there's already a powerful woman who is...  

• Emotionally elegant — she knows how to stay with herself when she’s with a man who matters.

• High-caliber in her attraction — she no longer wants what drains her; she wants what meets her.

• Magnetic at the identity level — she’s viscerally attractive to the right people.

• Grounded and discerning — she knows exactly what (and who) is right for her.

• At home in her body — she listens to her body like it’s her closest ally.

• Clear, calm, and unrehearsed — she dates from her power, not her wounds, fears, or performance.

• Deeply self-trusting — she knows there is no rush, no panic, no ticking clock.

• Rooted in her worth — she knows her value and allows her desires and her standards to lead the way.

But the only way to access her?

Is by accessing all of you — through your body.

And how do I know this?

Because I’ve been exactly where you are.

I spent all of my twenties “working on myself” — the books, the therapy, the courses, the patterns, the attachment labels, the mindset “upgrades,” the endless self-analysis.

And behind all that effort?
I kept on looping.

Dating kept sending me into anxiety and emotional spirals.
I compared myself to every other woman.
I felt less attractive, less magnetic, less enough.
I didn’t trust myself.
I tweaked, shapeshifted, softened, shrunk, and edited myself for men. And I looked for my worth in men.
I was scared of choosing badly again.
I lived with an invisible, anxious ticking clock.

And then came the relationship that broke me open — emotionally abusive, disempowering to the core — and it arrived at the very moment I was supposed to be “at my peak”: graduating from Oxford with Distinction and starting a shiny new life in London.

When it finally ended, I did something I had never truly done:
I listened to my gut. Fully, and for real.

That instinct led me to somatics.

I devoted the next years of my life to it — training as a Somatic Sex & Relationship Coach, a Body-Oriented Coach, and in Woman-Centered Coaching.

And then I practiced.
On dates.
In my body.
In real time.
Again and again.

And slowly — and then very suddenly — everything shifted.

I:

• Broke a decade-long cycle of painful love patterns.
• Stopped contorting myself to be chosen.
• Stopped looking for my worth in men; swapped validation-seeking for self-worth.
• Let go of the labels (“anxious,” “disorganized”) because I feel secure at the core of who I am.
• Started feeling gorgeous in my body — like, viscerally.
• Attracted a beautiful partnership with a man who adored me.
• And then released it with trust and clarity when my path asked me to.
• Moved countries and built a life I’m proud of.
• And in my new city, moved into my dream apartment on my favorite street.
• Befriended solitude and learned to treasure my own company.
• Built non-romantic, nourishing connections with beautiful humans.
• Became magnetic in ways I used to envy in other women.
• And finally understood that great women are like great wine — with time, we only get richer, fuller, and damn better every day.

That journey became my method, the backbone of my work, and the heart of my program

Date Like That Woman

It was, and still is, the best journey of my life.

No matter the specifics of your story… that kind of transformation, where you become the woman you know lives somewhere inside of you...

Is available to you.

Curious to explore it?